We have all heard of the famous quote “as a man thinketh so is he”. How true is this this statement you may ask. Well you might be shocked to know that every single result you get as time goes by is a result of your thoughts. The way you think about every situation 80% of the time determines your outcome. The way we think is usually as a result of the our self-consciouness.
Change your thinking
As a child you are born with no self concept. It would be true to say every opinion,feeling, attitude or value has been learned since childhood. You are also born unafraid, with no fear or limitation. Though as time goes by fear begins to creep in. We suddenly become afraid of failure, loss or rejection. We soon begin to feel we are too small to accomplish a certain task therefore we hide behind the words ” i can’t ” or “it’s too difficult”. Truth be told we are capable of everything and anything. But our thoughts always act as stumbling blocks. On our self mirrors we are always David going to battle Goliath. Changing the way you think has to begin by changing your beliefs. If you want to change the results of anything you must first change it’s beliefs. Beliefs of inferiority or deficiency that anyone has ever said about you are untrue and unreal. If ever growing up your parents always pointed out to your short comings instead of your strengths then its about time you got rid of those thoughts. You need to block every little voice in your head saying it’s too hard. Replace it with a positive affirmation that i can and i will.
Change your life
When you change the quality of your thinking, you instantly change the quality of your life. As i had said earlier the way you think automatically determines your outcome. In order to change your life change your thinking. Starve all the negative thoughts and leave no room for any limitations. To change your life you need to stop listening to what others say. You need to stop being afraid of getting into a new venture because your afaid the idea will not resonate with others. 70% of the time people dont even care what you do or don’t do. They only give their two cents opinion then move on with their life. At the end of the day no one cares weather you signed the deal or not. If your self esteem is not high you will always affected by the action and reaction of others.
I don’t promise that it’s easy to break off beliefs inorder to change your thinking then change your life. It’s a process but once it’s done, you will never be the same again. Your life will change in ways you can’t possibly imagine.